Tuesday, March 9, 2021
Lucky (The Book)
Monday, March 8, 2021
The Interview
The Netflix series The Crown necessarily fictionalizes its interpretation of historical events in 20th-century British history in situations such as the private conversations of the Queen, her Prime Ministers, and members of the Royal Family, the actual content of which we will never know. That said, it does a good job of capturing that distinctly modern dilemma of royal life - the conflict between a traditional understanding of commitment to duty to Crown, country, and Commonwealth and a contemporary obsession with freedom, autonomy, and personal happiness. In the 20th century, the locus classicus for this conflict was, of course the 1936 abdication of King Edward VIII, who notoriously abandoned the traditional expectation of his royal role as one of public commitment to duty and instead prioritized his desire for freedom, autonomy, and personal happiness in his shocking insistence on marrying an American divorcee contrary the advice of his Government and the other governments of the Commonwealth.
History, Karl Marx famously reminded us in The Eighteenth Brumaire of Louis Napoleon, repeats itself "the first time as tragedy, the second time as farce." The second iteration of the Edward and Wallis tragedy is the contemporary Harry and Meghan soap opera, the focus of the couple's much anticipated TV interview with Oprah Winfrey last night. (Given that Harry has five people between him and the throne - his father, his brother, and his nephews and niece - his abandonment of his royal role lacks the constitutional consequences of Edward's abdication and serves, soap-opera style, mainly to entertain an easily distracted popular audience, especially on this side of the Atlantic.)
Duchess Meghan presented herself to Oprah as someone previously unfamiliar with and surprisingly naive about what it means to be a working member of the British royal family, someone who experienced a misalliance of perception and reality. In contrast, she describes her current situation as living "authentically."
In fairness to Meghan, there is certainly something seriously problematic about contemporary tabloid and social media culture - a crazy culture which elevates royal princesses and princess only then to drag them down. (Non-royal public persons increasingly experience this as well.)
Obviously, "outsiders" - even members of aristocratic families with longstanding connections with the Crown (like the late Princess of Wales) - have experienced enormous difficulty in navigating the complex and contradictory expectations contemporary tabloid and media culture have created. Even the Duke of Edinburgh, a royal prince, whose mother had been born at Windsor Castle, and who married into the family at a much more deferential time in history, was treated as an outsider and experienced difficulty dealing with the many complex and contradictory expectations. That Meghan would also have experienced such stresses seems to have been almost inevitable (and should accordingly have been expected and prepared for). Admittedly that is an aspect of the modern era, to which there seems no obvious answer. (The older alternative of arranged marriages between lifelong royals who already know the drill is at present, for all sorts of reasons, no longer feasible, nor is a return to an if not deferential at least more civil media environment at all likely.)
That said, certainly it needs to be stipulated, however, that royal life, while obviously very glamorous and privileged, is, by its nature, intended to be a vocation - one of lifelong commitment to Crown, country, and (in the British case) Commonwealth. And Meghan's complaints are not just about the media but also about the "institution" (as she likes to call it) itself. Clearly, Meghan found real royal life quite constricting. Revealingly, she unfavorably compares it in the interview with her previous - obviously freer - life as an American celebrity. But, of course, the whole problem lies in the total difference between being a royal person and being an American celebrity. If, perhaps, she really was unaware of that difference and was as unfamiliar with royal life as she suggests, someone should certainly have enlightened her sooner rather than later.
And there is, unfortunately, also at least an apparent perception on Meghan and Harry's part that racial prejudice has played a part in the difficulties the couple have experienced.
Both Harry and Meghan acknowledge that she was welcomed into the family at first and that things went well for a while, before things started to go wrong. The menacing cloud covering all this seems to be the memory of Harry's mother, Diana - someone who was very differently experienced by different members of the family, the media, and society, and who is still very differentially interpreted. Likewise, if Harry feels "let down" by his father, one suspects his father feels let down by his son as well.
There are some problems that have no perfect solutions. There is obviously a legitimate need for royal persons (like other public personalities) to find some sort of livable balance between a life lived on a public stage and some sort of normal human existence. Somehow all royals and royal couples have to figure out how best to do that. How adequately they do so will depend in part on their individual personalities and on the sorts of resources that are available to them. So far, it does not seem that the solution that is being tried by this couple is the optimal one.
The contemporary popular culture and media environment will always prioritize freedom, autonomy, and personal happiness at the expense of the more traditional expectations of lifelong commitment to duty. Yet the nature of monarchy and its contemporary purpose both for constitutional governance and a society's symbolic structure of values require all involved to prioritize the traditional expectations of lifelong commitment. In the end there is no getting around that.
Sunday, March 7, 2021
The Way through the Desert
Some Thoughts on this 3rd Sunday of Lent, March 7, 2021.
Today’s Gospel [John 2:13-25] account of an angry Jesus at war with the Temple’s money-changers is a familiar one. It appears in some form in all 4 Gospels and its imagery has had influence far beyond its originally religious significance. Some 88 years ago, on March 4, 1933, in the depths of the 20th-century's Great Depression, Franklin D. Roosevelt was inaugurated President of the United States. Everybody has heard his famous line about the only thing we have to fear. That same inaugural address also included the following words:
Friday, March 5, 2021
One Year
Homily at Mass on the 1st Anniversary of My Mother's Death, Paulist Fathers' Motherhouse Chapel, March 5, 2021. A video recording of the Mass will be posted later today on Facebook.
Abraham Lincoln famously said: “in the end, it is not the years in a life, but the life in the years.” My mother was blessed with both. She outlived her siblings and in-laws, surpassing the psalmist’s famous fourscore and ten. We are so used to people getting old now that we forget that until recently people did not automatically expect to reach such an old age. My mother’s generation generally did not begin life expecting to live as long as so many of them did. Certainly, my mother didn’t, having been warned as a somewhat sickly child that she might not even make it to 16. Well, what do doctors know, anyway?
A person’s tombstone always features a name and two dates – the deceased’s date of birth and date of death, separated sometimes by a little dash. More important than the years, however, as Lincoln reminded us so tellingly, is the life lived in the dash between the dates. And it is in the life one lives that one becomes the person one will forever be in eternity.
As the only American-born child in a family of Italian immigrants, she inherited the heritage of the old world, reinforced by a brief but memorable sojourn as a child in the kingdom of Italy, while being firmly rooted in the promise of opportunity which had enticed her parents and so many others to uproot themselves, like Abraham of old, and to put down new roots in a land of promise.
From a distance, we look back on that life we shared with her and all the people that were a part of it, so many of whom are themselves gone now. But it was not an easy time. It was a struggle, as she used to say, just to make ends meet. And so I think it a special blessing that she got to enjoy as many years as she did – first, together with my father in their home in Westchester and then after my father’s illness and death a whole new life for her in California. It was a difficult challenge at her age to move across country. But how happy she was there, being near her daughter Linda and Nick and Claire and Laura. And all the friends she made there, so many friends, whom she treasured.
At my parents’ wedding, the priest would have instructed them about the life they were committing themselves to, in these once familiar words “That future, with its hopes and disappointments, its successes and its failures, its pleasures and its pains, its joys and its sorrows, is hidden from your eyes.” No longer hidden but fully lived, all those hopes, disappointments, successes, failures, pleasures, pains, joys, and sorrows accompany her now to the throne of the living God and his all-purifying grace
My mother struggled, as we all must, with the contradiction between who we are now and who God created us to become – until united with him in his kingdom we can finally see all things from God’s point of view and so experience the full effect of God’s patient, life-long transformation of us by his grace.
In their earthly lives, Martha and Mary and Lazarus had all responded to Jesus’ invitation by committing to him as to their own family. That invitation, extended to my mother as it has been to each of us, makes everything different from what it might otherwise have been. Having blessed my mother’s life, it now imparts new meaning to her death as, with confident hope and trust in God’s promises, we commend her forever to the new life of the Risen Christ.
Wednesday, March 3, 2021
What Was a Sunday?
On March 3, 321, the Roman Emperor Constantine made Sunday a legal holiday, a public day of rest, which it remained for almost 17 centuries - until living memory. I am old enough to remember when most businesses were closed on Sundays, when most people had the day off, when many marked the day by going to church in the morning, followed by a family Sunday dinner and other family-centered gatherings and activities. Now, of course, all sorts of business are open, and many are forced to work on Sunday, many of then unable to attend Sunday Mass as a result. There were all sorts of things that were wrong with the world when I was growing up, but Sunday was one of the things that that world got right, something sadly which we have lost to our own detriment and that of generations to come.
On February 12, 304, at Abitinae in Roman Africa, 49 Christians were martyred for having illegally celebrated Sunday Eucharist in defiance of Emperor Diocletian's edict. One of then, Emeritus, famously said: Sine dominico non possumus (We cannot be without the Lord's Day). Their heroic witness attests to the singular importance of Sunday in Christian worship and life. The loss of Sunday as a society-wide special day - largely in my own lifetime - represents a monumental loss for both the Church (whose weekly worship has suffered accordingly) and society (which has lost that traditional rhythm of rest and work).
Now, exacerbated by the pandemic, the loss of Sunday may be irretrievable. On Downton Abbey, the Dowager Countess of Grantham (Dame Maggie Smith) famously asked, "What is a weekend?" Will future generations have to ask, "What was a Sunday?"
(Photo: Bernini's Statue of Constantine, Saint Peter's Basilica at the base of the Scala Regia)




