A few years ago, I read a wonderful
biography of Prince Philip of Hesse, who died in 1980, and was head of the
distinguished dynasty that had ruled part of central Germany for centuries. One of the book’s themes is the interconnectedness of
Europe’s princely families and the drama of those relationships during the 1st
and 2nd World Wars. Philip himself was a nephew of the German
Emperor, William II. During World War I, Philip’s cousin, Britain’s King George V, was his
country’s principal enemy. In World War II, Philip’s father-in-law, King Victor
Emmanuel III of Italy, was an ally who famously switched sides midway through
the war, with consequences catastrophic for Philip and fatal for his wife, the
Princess Mafalda, who died in a German concentration camp 79 years ago this
week.
Royalty, of course, are not the
only ones divided by wars. The American Revolution famously found Benjamin
Franklin and his son on opposite sides, while in the Civil War Abraham
Lincoln’s brothers-in-law fought for the Confederacy – family divisions that
were widely replicated in the experience of so many families at all levels of
society.
Nor are wars the only causes of
family conflict. We all know, perhaps from our own experience, how common
conflicts can be among those closest to one another – and how painful that
experience can be precisely because of the bond that binds family
members to one another, like it or not.
Jesus in today’s Gospel used the
potential for family conflict to illustrate his larger point about the complete
commitment demanded of every disciple. One of the fundamental facts of life is
that saying “Yes” to some one particular person, cause, or commitment often entails
saying “no” to other options. So it is with the decision to follow Jesus, a
commitment that is meant to matter enough to change everything. In this matter,
Jesus himself set the standard. After all, Jesus did not die peacefully in his
bed or while on vacation at the beach. Rather his death was due directly to the
way he lived and the opposition that produced.
Of course, no one wants to
be at odds with one’s family, friends, country, or whatever. No one should ever
want conflict. But conflict happens – not always, but often enough, and
especially in those great either/or choices that produce martyrs (and almost
martyrs, like poor Jeremiah in today’s 1st reading). One of modern
history’s more sobering facts is that the past century has produced more Christian
martyrs than any other century. And then there are all the ordinary
situations, which lack the high drama of martyrdom, but which can on occasion
also call for doing something different from what one would otherwise have
done, even at the risk of opposition.
Of course, we would all prefer a
calm, untroubled life, in a calm, conflict-free world. We voice that sentiment
every day when we pray that we may be
always free from sin and safe from all distress. It’s not conflict per se to which Jesus calls us. It is
commitment which he challenges us to live – to be clear about what
matters most, clear about our purpose in life, clear about what needs to be
done (or not done). It is the challenge of being willing to be transformed by
God’s grace into the person God wants me to be – and being thus transformed
while still a part of an otherwise untransformed world.
And, because we live in an
otherwise untransformed world, that transforming experience can at times
really resemble a sword separating us from whoever or whatever we would
otherwise have so readily clung to.
Jesus does indeed promise peace
to his disciples – the peace of his kingdom, a very different peace from
a momentary absence of conflict. As Christians, we should not and must not go
around with a chip on our shoulder as if we were spoiling for a fight. After
all, the fruits of the Holy Spirit include love, joy, and peace – not hatred,
hostility, and anger). The challenge, rather, is to build bridges, not knock
them down – to pave the way for more and more people to experience the peace and unity of God’s kingdom,
yet all the while still struggling to do so in an unconverted and untransformed and
hence potentially hostile world.
Homily
for the 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Holy Ghost Church, Knoxville,
TN, August 18, 2013.
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